Meet the 2009 Little Mr. Citrus!

I know, sounds fancy right. I knew when I entered Dane he would win. He is photogenic, with a toothy grin, dimples, blonde curls and his father's genuinely happy disposition. Besides all of his winning qualities, how many two year old pagaent contestants could there be in the 6-35 month old boy catagory on a Saturday at the Chain o' Lakes complex?
I should just start by saying that this was my first pagaent. When I was about 12 my parents took me to Barbizon (remember them?) they wanted to sign me only after my parents paid heavty tuition for finishing school and modeling and wanted me to loose about 10 pounds (ok, more like 15). I was dancer for 13 years and haven't gone many days without makeup since I turned 14. and then... I have a boy. and then... I HAVE ANOTHER BOY. After Dane was born I proclaimed to do my best to ensure that at least one of my boys would be gay (j/k Nan!). All joking aside, I entered Dane into (what I prefer to call) competition due to teach him poise and confidence and begin to make him confortable on stage. I am quite certain on of my children will end up on Broadway. The winner also recieves a full scholarship to the John Powers talent agency, etc.
Like many of the opportunities I attempt to seize, I just have too much on my plate and always rely on my talent for "winging it". But... these moms were serious. Sure, I had my costume change and cream based rouge to add a little color to his cheeks, but this was no joke. While I can appreciate the what the stage mom goes through (mine was one for many years) this group too it to a whole new level and the children felt oddly mature at least in my opinion. Dane hammed it up and then had frequent melt downs when he couldn't color on demand. But he still won. Oh yeah, did I mention he was the only one in his category, yeah, he was a shoe-in alright.
My favorite quote of what was certainly among the most oddly disturbing experiences of my life was: "I try to give you the benefit of the doubt when you have these wild ideas, but this...my youngest son, and his first trophy is from a beauty pagaent!? This is the last straw, I am taking over the children's activities!" -Justin Heimer.
You can imagine how much better he felt when he saw his picture in the paper the next day donning crown and sash (Dane refused to wear it on stage, so they put it on dad, right about the time the reporter came in to ask me some questions!)

Organization is a beautiful thing

Before


After


I think everyone has their own idiosynchracies regarding organization. The way you keep your desk, your closet, the make up in your bathroom. I am not the most rigidly organizaed person in the world (my husband and nanny like the items in the refrigerator to be organized alphabetically by brand... can you say physco!!) BUT i do like my things in a certain way. My closet being messy drives me crazy and causes WAY to many morning outfit selection panick attacks. You know those days, when you have "nothing to wear" and change like 3 times. My closet has been a mess and I finally organized it this weekend!

3 Costume Changes in One Day!

Those of you who know me, know I always dreamed of dancing on broadway! So 3 costume changes translates to mean I had a(scheduled but forfieted) Tennis match this morning, then off to the office, then to the Mom's vs. Sons Basketball game, then to a JLGWH Board meeting. My favorite part of this busy day was enjoying a little glimpse of my 6 year old's world. Tonight was the last of a 6 week basketball clinic that Jackson has enjoyed and Justin helped coach. He is a good little b-ball player and totally called me out for traveling! Looks like mom better be practicing a little more, perhaps a performance on the courts is my real calling, not the stage =) (pictured above is my girlfriend Wendy and her daughter. Our husbands were on the sidelines, video recorder in hand...you may want to check youtube to get the full experience of the game!)

Big Kid Night Out

Having a toddler at home, it is inevitable that Dane often gets more attention. Jackson is a loving and kind big brother, and is a huge help when Mommy needs a shower or someone to "keep and eye on your brother".

We often enjoy the benefits of a babysitter, like many young families but on Saturday night we asked Jackson if he wanted to go with Mommy and Justin for a big kid night out. His face lit up at the thought of just Dane staying with the babysitter, and he got to experience the seemingly illusive night out.

We took Jackson to dinner and a Movie. Marley and Me... rated PG. About 20 minutes into the movie, Justin literally dug the ticket stub out of his pocket to confirm the movie's rating. A few risque/sex-related scenes that were much too "adult" for, what I thought, a PG movie should include. The movie was awesome! No doubt a warm family movie, that really hit home for the 3 of us, we were all three crying. That was the other element that was a bit disturbing for Mommy. Should my 6 year old be crying in a movie? The ending was a little too heavy for my son, and he cried the whole way home about Marley. We explained to him that is was in fact important to love and care for all members of our family (it was also somewhat relieveing considering that we consider letting our puppy, Stella, run away on a daily basis... Aunt Weeble, disregard that comment :) and that it was only a movie after all.

What are movie rating based on? I have always considered PG appropriate for my 6 year old. What age do you think PG qualifies your kid for?

Email from the Islands

LuJean and Chad arrived and have begun making their way around and settling in to their new life. While she has made about 3 collect calls to mom and dad to confirm her arrival and such, the international calls are very expensive so thank God for email! Looks like she and "Chet" are already experiencing the luck of the islands. Can you imagine packing everything you own into 6 bags and leaving the country to start all over... she is a brave and dedicated student, friend, aunt, daughter and wife. I am so proud of them both! Here is her email from yesterday and some photos of her apartment that we took when we went down in Nov to find her place!

Hey family,
I am in Pams dorm and we are enjoying to AC and wireless internet. We are here and safe, we even took a break after lunch to ride down a long dirt road to one of the local beaches unknown to torist...more breath taking than you could ever imagine! Conch shells lined the surf that broke along a huge coral reef.
We were lucky enough to catch some tenants moving out of our apartment building and they GAVE us the internet modem!!!! So were just transfered the bill over and we are up and running on internet. They just didnt have the ethernet cord so we have to go buy one so that we can get vonage up and running, hopefully we will have it by tonight.
One of the med students is selling his rag top jeep and we contacted him to look at it as a possibility for our new vehicle.
I hope all is well with everyone and we miss you to peices allready. XOXOXOXO Chad and LuJean

Thanks,
LuJean Waters-Harris
University of Florida
Bar HW Ranch




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Chillaxin NYE

After the chaos and whirlwind of the holidays, parties, company, little sleep and long to-do lists, Justin and I were elated to have a quiet evening at home cozied in with our favorite bottle of Moet and Chandon. Still a blue from my sister leaving, I just really wanted to curl up under the covers, and not have to put on a "happy face" for anyone (as my sister knows best, I can get really grouchy). We did just that and had the perfect night chillin and relaxin! We promised Jackson he could stay up to watch the ball drop, knowing he would never make it, and he was asleep in my lap by 10:30. That was right after our new neighbors treated us all to front row seats of a fireworks show that compared only to the professional one blasted by the city. The B's moved in a few months ago after we waited anxiously for the home to sell, hoping the neighbors would have young kids, were friendly, etc. You can imagine how excited we were to get another Grace family with 2 elementary aged boys!
Thanks for the fireworks show guys, it was awesome!

Auld Lang Syne

Old days gone by. I can't say that part of me isn't ready to bid farewell to 2008. My family's business has suffered tremendously, and of course personal finances have become so burdensome and taken years off my life. I see greater worry in my husband's eyes and more gray hairs on my sweet mom's head. That said, our healthy children, family and friends are greater blessings than we deserve.

This past year has been short, chaotic, whole-hearted, thoughtful, hopeful, reflective, doubted, exciting, anxious, loving, generous, forgiving, amazing, spiritual, encouraging, off-balance and fullfilling.

My short life has not been without sweet and sour, and for that I am stronger. This was a year filled with personal growth opportunities for me in my professional world, as I learned about sacrifice and loyalty, my home life with a new 1st grader to learn about responsibilities and an infant transitioning to toddler demonstrating his very own personality and spirit. Also, my tender hearted young husband struggling with his golf deamons and being a part-time single father, while I serve the Junior League in a whole new capacity. My volunteerism with the JLGWH has been such an opportunity and learning experience this year. My heart has been replenished by the rewards of helping others and the friendships that have grown out of this experience have added so much to my life.

Most significant this year, above all those useless earthly concerns, was the peace and love we experienced as Justin and I continued our spiritual journey at Grace. After becoming members last year, we then resolved to re-direct our family's focus on our Heavenly Father and our family's life has been so enriched by our faith and worship of His love. Here is wishing you and yours a peaceful and prosperous New Year!

Noni Visits!

New visitor from up North, on Friday we took Uncle Phillip to the airport and upgraded a guest (no offense P, but she did bring us great stuff!!) LOL. Justin's mom, more fondly known as our "Noni" arrived and we were so excited to have something to look forward to post-Christmas. We opened gifts, and caught up on all the So. MD happenings and we are enjoying Grandma Noni's visit, and she simply adored her picture of the boys!

Mimi's BIG gift

As many of you know, the end of the year has been a bitter sweet arrival for my family as we prepare for my sweet angel sister and Bro-in-law to leave for the Caymans. Uncle Chad put on his Elf hat for one last bang before Christmas and at my mom's idea, for the perfect gift for Jackson this year. Our handy Uncle C built his a half pipe. That's right, a skateboard ramp which is sure to guarantee a broken bone or two ... you can imagine my excitement! Jackson, however, was elated and when he opened the door to the garage at Mom's on Christmas Day - he knew right away that this must be St. Nick.

5:30 am: "Guys, Santa came!!"

We were so exhausted and sleeping so soundly that we didnt even feel Jackson squirm out of bed and into the living room. He ran back into our room yelling and almost gave us a heart attack! Suprisingly, he was content enough for the moment to go back to sleey until the sun came up and we could get little Dane to see just what Santa's visit brought. Santa always leaves the boys a special note which of course I keep each year and this was the 1st year that Jackson could read the letter himself. What a moment that was... our morning was so magical.





Dane has earned a new nickname lately, "rainman". Our little artist just draws and draws, on the walls, the tile, paper, himself, anything he can. He of course loved his doodle pad.
He asked Santa for an alarm clock this year, so he could wake up like a big boy for school.
Aunt weeble was styling her adorable Cowboy Santa PJ's, compliments of Tiger Lily designs! She and Chad looked so adorable Christmas morning. Everyone comes over in the PJ's to watch the paper fly and boys sqeaul!

Twas the Night Before Christmas ...

Our Stella girl is in heaven with all the extra little "toys" around to chew up!

With a tough economy Justin and I definatley were more conservative with our spending this year and had the Christmas eve panic attack that Jackson didn't really have many presents to open. While Dane is still at the age, that the boxes are as interesting as their contents, Jackson's gifts are more expensive so a PSP and a few games don'tmake for many packages. However, when Jackson yelled out that "I am the luckiest kid in the whole world" on Christmas morning, Justin and I just looked at each other and our holiday was complete!
We are so blessed with a generous loving family. Every Christmas Eric (Jackson's dad) and his fiance, Allison, come over early Christmas morning to share in the Santa experience. We all go in together on our little man's gifts, and it is so touching when I look over to see 2 dads simultaneously recording with the video cameras. It is definately a wonderful life!

Christmastime

Poppa Duke always knows just what to get! He makes special times so fun!

The P.J. pants that I made for the boys to wear the night before Christmas... unfortunately the seam of Jackson's crotch didnt hold up and as he sat criss cross opening gifts, we all saw his little boxers underneath! I keep learning as I go!

Christmas with the Waters family lots of kids = lots of fun!
Blended families make for busy Holidays... and spoiled little ones! My boys opened presents for days and the celebrations just kept coming.

On the 5th Day of Christmas

Justin and I have the sweetest tradition, and each year he and I do The 12 Days of Christmas, which we started last Sunday. Small ($5 or less, even free) thoughtful gifts are the purpose that are a sweet little suprise each day that keep us connected during the holidays. It is so great for showing each other that the little things are noticed! Being on the run, I had been out of coffee for like 2 days - ugh. This was my gift this morning =) my favorite Columbian from Richard's.

Good Cheer

We have been sharing the joy of the season and preparing for the big guy's arrival! Uncle Phillip, Justin's BFF (yes they are totally metro) arrived into town on Wednesday, and the boys were so excited. I just love Phillip, and seeing him and Justin together truly just warms my heart. They are like big 7 year olds that just play video games, golf and wrestle with the real kids in the house. We are glad Phillip will be here for Christmas. He has definately gotten a tast of life in the "crazy house" as my sister calls it, and we have been on the go.


Our teacher gift this year was so great! Creative HR moms made this photo wreath with rolled bills for our teacher. This certainly beats 19 candles or "teacher's have class" ornaments! Mrs. A loved it!



Jackson's 1st Grade class Christmas party


This is our family tree with all of the kids' ornaments and home made ones from all the years, and those passed down from tradition and grandparents. Yes, fragile and irreplaceable. So, you can guess which tree all suddenly fell last week, breaking a number of ornaments... the next day one strand of lights went out on the house - making them all dark. "It's the most wonderful time of the year" - that is what we sing during these moments, you know to avoid an obscenity in front of the children!


Mommy's Tiger Tree

Christmas Tree Lane is actually a combination of streets in my hometown of Bartow, where the houses deck the halls and even Chevy Chase himself can't compare. It is so gorgeous! Horse drawn carriages also take cozy passengers should you choose. My first house after moving home from college was on CTL, and we loved it. On Thursday, our "pop-pop" and 'Mi-Mi" (aka mom and jimmy) took us on a hay ride to see all the gorgeous lights.

LRYCC Holiday Party 08

We "rocked the party" last night at Lake Region Yacht & Country Club's annual Holiday Party. An elegant evening with four course meal, swing band, and of course the cocktails and champagne were flowing. We shared a table with the Myers and Fischers which ensured that no moment was dull. The club was packed and the staff was on top of their game, our new Chef LeeAnn prepared the most yummy lobster ever. In the Pro's Nest next door the boys enjoyed the kid's festivities with their friends eating pizza, playing video games, and watching movies. How i love a good party!

Christmas party circut in full swing!

(justin thinks he is funny impersonating me in this picture - hmmm not so much)

My dear friend Jennifer recently went to NYC and brought me back the most gorgeous silk from our favorite store Mood (as seen on Project Runway!). I was so proud of how this dress turned out, it is my favorite design to date, though I have to admit the fabric gets all the credit. (pay no attention to the half decorated tree in the background-one down, one to go)
Justin and I enjoyed the East Polk County Assoc of REALTORS (EPCAR) party at Tanners last night. Their are few of us real estate industry pros left due to the current market, and those who are left... know how to party, we all could use a drink lately! We decorated our tabletop tree for the mission donation, while it did not win, it was meaningful to me donning minature musical instraments for ornaments and entitled "make a joyful noise unto the Lord". The entry "fee" was a bag of canned goods that will also be donated to the mission and they we piled high at the entry. Party with a purpose are always the best kind. After the party we walked next store to Tsunami Sushi for our favorite Mexican roll!

Angel Alert

Jackson's Christmas program was Wednesday at Grace Lutheran and the Music and program were the best I've seen. He was so "into" it and his moves and singing, so intense. I was all tears as he and the other angels proclaimed the birth of precious baby Jesus. I am so proud of the school's music program and of course we just love the church as well. I think both of boys have thrived and grown up in his glory due to the solid spiritual foundation we have enjoyed at Grace Lutheran. No pictures are allowed in the Sanctuary, but here a couple of my cutie pies at our post-program dinner.

Happy Birthday Dane!

Our celebration of Dane's birthday weekend was absolutley perfect. The boys had a wonderful time and Jackson told me often, that this was "the best weekend of his entire life". When Dane saw Barney up close and personal that wonderment look on his face, mezmorized by the magic of the moment, it literally brought tears to mine and Justin's eyes. We made so many wonderful memories and it was a much needed getaway for the four of us, to reconnect during this hectic time of year. It was pure bliss all weekend, and since we decided to upgrade to annual passes we plan to enjoy both parks a lot more. We stayed at the Royal Pacific hotel which made both days much more relaxing. The gorgeous hotel is at Universal Studios so we could simply walk back to the room when the boys needed a rest or nap (or when mom and dad wanted to watch the gator game and enjoy a drink!)and then headed back to the park for the extrordinary holiday parade. The room key doubles as your fast pass in both Universal and Islands of Adventure, so not only a money saver, but saved tons of time. Both parks were great we loved the Macy's Christmas parade, the perfect weather, the Barney Show, Grinchmas (this was the very first weekend of this new debut program and it was awesome), Who-ville and Cat and the Hat, Jurassic park (Jackson was obsessed with the Egg Scan) The Hulk, Superheros, Shrek, Spongebob - what a blast!

Cat in the Hat Celebration

The people have spoken! and Cat and the Hat it is! Though, I am wondering if my husband just kept going on to vote, he just loves that movie with Michael Meyer. However, after much consideration of what will be the best possible birthday for my (almost) 2 year old, we decided that our family could use a little get a way. With the stress of the holidays, visitors, and crazy schedules, we decided that a weekend at Disney for Dane's birthday would be just what the 4 of us need. This will be Dane's first trip to Disney! Now that the *pointe* is all a glow with holiday lights, we have been taking the kids on a golf cart ride every night to look at Christmas lights, and Dane is in awe. He howls and points at every house and I just know he will love Mickey's Very Merry Christmas Parade, and the magic of it all.

Of course, I wanted to Dane's special day to include it all, so we are having an early morning "send-off" party, featuring... you guessed it, Green Eggs and Ham - anyone have a good recipie!?